i don't really want to discuss this because i don't want to force being called that because i am talking about it and explaining how it made me feel. i would have talked about it sooner but was afraid to for that reason. Not that i could ever force Master to call me something, clearly, but i only want Him to call me that because He feels its deserved.
i know i mentioned it very briefly in a past blog but didn't go into at all.
i am bringing it up again because i came across that verbiage in an article today. This is what a Dom had written when asking His sub about how she felt:
From the sub:
"The most "protected and cared for" I ever felt was when my Dom called me princess."
Here is how He replied:
"If there is one single-most phrase a submissive woman wants to hear, it is "Good Girl". She wants and needs to have her efforts to please you acknowledged. It is very difficult for men to understand that pleasing the man she loves is to her one of the greatest pleasures in her life. It is an emotional fulfillment so deep that it goes far beyond any sexual expression. By giving her your praise as frequently as possible you are confirming that you recognize and appreciate her for who she is and for the love she has to give you."
That statement cannot be more truer. The day Master called me "Good Girl", i felt completely and utterly in awe. i was proud that He was proud of me. Master does tell me often that i do make Him happy, but to hear it like that is just something different. Its just a different feeling. i can't explain it. i felt.....owned.
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